Can anyone help me find “The First harsh Word”?

There used to be an excellent short article on Titus 2 Ministry entitled "The First Harsh Word." The article emphasized never saying the first harsh word in a marriage and how this would keep from a divorce. Titus 2 Ministry website was recently taken off the web and I know of no way of finding this article. If anyone has it and could send it to me, or could tell me the author and how to find it, I would be so very grateful.